Writting letters

Russian Ladies from West Siberia

People want happiness and security.Our members are highly educated, family oriented and they really want to know that someone special for their heart and need to show hat you are the one.
Do not be concerned about distance for love there is no distance!
Tell truthfully who you are, what you want, and of your ultimate dreams. Tell in the first letter what you envision. Tell whether you want a friend, ideal mate, a lover or a pen pal. Tell the person honestly about yourself. About your intentions, goals, purposes, ideal scenes and dreams. The more the better. Tell you of past;impress with your deeds, accomplishments, adventures, travels, education, your home and daily life and neighborhood. Make sure that she or he is the person that you have been seeking. Ask the questions that you want answers to- the things that matter most to you. Unique to letter correspondence is the freedom to ask the questions that would be awkward in face to face conversation. Take advantage of the situation and find out all that y ou need to know, in order to ascertain whether this is your ideal mate, the person you are going to wake up next to every morning, for the rest of your life. This is the most important opportunity of your life. Always include a photo of yourself in your first letter.Letters with no photos rarely have a response.
Write to her or him every day.Even if it rquote s only a note, write. Let the person know that you are thinking of her. If the person doesn't hear from you then she will think that you have found someone else, or worse.

Dating your letter
Start your letter with writing the date on stop. It will help you keep track of how long it takes to get a reply. Postmarks can provide the same information, but they are often hard to read. It will also help clarify things for the lady if your letters arrive out of sequence.

Use simple vocabulary & proper grammar.
Keep you letter short & uncomplicated. Most ladies will not understand slang. Use short sentences. If she has to struggle to read what you've written she might just give up, especially if she is receiving letters from other men that are easier to read.

Type your letter.
Do not forget that your handwriting might be very ornate & attractive, but still difficult for others \par to read. Include a handwritten note at the end of the letter. It should explain that you are typing the letter, so it would be easier for her to read. Ask her if she prefers you to type, or write in future letter & tell her you'll be happy to switch. If you prefer to type all your letters you might want to include a personal handwritten note at the end of each letter. Do not send Xeroxed copy of one letter with a recipient's name written in on top.Every woman wants to feel special, she wants to see that you made an effort in writing a letter just for her.

What to write about.
Keep your letter friendly& positive. Tell her your age, height, weight, occupation. Tell her about your interests, hobbies, your outlook on life. Ask her about her family & tell her about yours. Be interested in her native language & culture. Tell her you would enjoy learning. Financial security is important for these women, so mentioning that you own your own home is suggested. If the children are living ex-wife, make it clear that your future wife will not be expected to raise them, unless something unforeseen happens. Be polite, sincere & show interest in her as a person. Make a compliment to her picture, but do not go overboard praising her beauty. Tell that you are able to comfortably provide for your wife & family.

What not to write about.
Do not tell her you love her, or propose to her. At the most say that you are interested in finding a lifetime. Don't go on bragging on how good of a person you are. Do not mention how painful your recent divorce was, or describe failed relationships with other women. Do not send nude, or half-naked photos of yourself, even if you have a great body to show off. Do not make your first letter too long.

What if you receive no reply?
Do not get discouraged. This can happen for all of the following reasons. Allow at least a month for the reply to reach you. Your letter will be delivered in 14 -17 days. If after a month, or 6 week you still have no reply-write her again. Letters do get lost, even if you think you did everything possible to anticipate it. If the letter was returned to you as undeliverable, please send us a copy of the envelope & we will replace the address with another one at no charge. It is possible that a lady did not reply, because she is involved in correspondence with somebody else. However, if you really like the girl write her again in 2-3 months. Things happen & people change their minds, so at that time she might be glad to hear from you.